DharmaGirl
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I keep an open relationship with my son, since he was 15 when my symptoms started. Up until then I had been a nurse, we went on a lot of trips together, he rode horses 2 or 3 times a week, and I was emotionally available to him. Then I had a breakdown and was hospitalized many, many times. My ex was renting my shop from me, and kept him informed more than he needed to know. As I got better, he would ask questions and tell me about his anger and fear, and I let him. I explained what I wanted to, and assured him his anger and fear was a normal reaction to what happened. It has made us closer.