I was doing fairly well then my husband brought up going out(beyond what I am already doing) for my birthday. That sent the warning vibes through out me, while I tried to appear calm about it. I'm already going out for lunch and a movie. He wants to go out for breakfast break, not breakfast, but like a treat and sit at a coffee place. Little parts of me are panicking and then he brought up our visit to my sister's on the fourth. So much for keeping my nerves low key today.