I don't know what this was?

[Dasovi]

Thank you for your supportive responses! I hope I can get this worked out in therapy. Lately, I have been noticing that there's still la lot of feelings around this, especially the feeling of betrayal as well. I hope I can find the right words. And you are right that maybe the avoidance makes sense @Ivib, It's interesting to think about it the way you describe it @moved that people can get arrested for it. I guess why it's hard for me is that i don't have language for this yet. I think naming it would probably help.

 

[Aba]

There has to be some kind of action as well, like an assault or forced sexual/physical violation.

there was, he shoved his penis right up at her face.

 

[Bepuwof]

When he done that, how did she know if he was going to go further, attempt to force her to give him oral/rape her for instance? I think I would have been very scared in that situation not knowing what he was planning or why he was doing that. He shouldn't have had his penis out in front of her at all.