I Don't Know What To Do.

[thomas.robinson.54966]

I had flowers sent to her house. I am just afraid she is going to find someone else. I really screwed up.

 

[Jimmy1]

There is an old saying 'If you love something set it free, if it comes back to you it's meant to be'.

Honestly, right now to her it probably feels like to her that you are stalking her, or pressuring her which will make things worse. Leave her for a bit, by all means tell her you are going to leave her be. Tell her you still love her, but respect her needs.

Just an opinion mate.

 

[Sarg]

I agree with Jimmy about leaving her be and not contacting her, but occasional flowers, say every other week or so, just to let her know you care about her might be a good idea. That way, you won't be pressuring her, just a subtle hint that you care.

Sarg

 

[dutchiedelta]

Just my 0,02 like the guys above said.
If i heard nothing at all I'd assume he no longer wants to be in contact.
Telling her you respect her and give her space is a big difference.
Letting her know you would like to send a card of flowers once a week without expecting anything in return makes it clear for her as well.

 

[Jimmy1]

I agree. I never got my wife back, but I didn't know what I know now. But I know many, many guys that have turned their lives around and their relationships.

She probably just needs some space.

 

[thomas.robinson.54966]

Thanks brother

 

[5line]

ill bet everyone here read your post and said "sh1t that was me at one point". i am still kicking myself for the same thing. if she gives you a second chance hold on as tight as you can and remember when in doubt ; keep your mouth shut. enjoy your beach cocktails ....responsibly of course.