The Albatross
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Good on you for writing off the additional airfare. But I think I would think twice before treating her to another trip.
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my roommate decreed that she is no longer allowed at the apartment (which is honestly a fair boundary for him to have, if he felt unsafe)
I'm a bit confused by your story? You have only been in a relationship for 3 months but have already moved 400 miles to be closer to her yet she still needs to fly in from out of town? Can I ask how you met her? Did you meet her online? Do you know her outside of these two visits? I'm not trying to be intrusive, rather I'm trying to understand the bigger picture. There are other parts of your story that confuse me as well so I'm hoping you can clarify.
I'm not saying to give up on her, but it's worrisome that these negative patterns are emerging. Maybe encourage her to seek out a trauma therapist? Seeing someone who doesn't specialize in trauma is a waste of both time and money.