Elizabethjc
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I need help in knowing what will happen if I come to the police about this, even though this was four months ago. This is a long story.
I befriended these two juniors during my senior year in our art class, N and G and got somewhat close with N that I was inviting him to hang out with my friends at our high school football games, him and G invited my friends and I to G's house to hang out, and I slept over once previously alone with them and nothing happened.
One night sometime in March they invited me to come over to G's house for a party (his parents were hosting the party for their own friends already and N & G were already there with their other friends.)
The first plan was that I was suppose to be there only for an hour then I was suppose to meet up with another friend at another party, so when I told them this, G was trying to get me to stay and offered me some alcohol which I accepted. I met G's parent's female roommate, R, who I think is in her early 20s and we started talking.
I then went out back with these two other girls M and T who I already knew from school and smoked with them and they were there when G and the roommate were trying to get me to get into their hot tub which I declined because I didn't want to take off my clothes really.
At this point I was drunk and high and wanted to go sleep and about 25-30 minutes passed when G came out the hot tub and told me to come with him or I could stay out here. I went with him because I wanted to lay down and he guided me to his room. He said I could lay on his bed and crawled in right next to me and I thought that was it.
He then turned me around and started kissing me and I asked, "G, what are you doing?" and he said, "I don't know" then kept on going. He pulled up my shirt and bra and tried taking off my pants but I held onto them so he wouldn't and gave up eventually.
We lied there for a while and that's when I fell unconscious. I woke up a few minutes later to me giving him oral and pulled away.
He then got up to let someone in which was the female roommate, R.
I was panicking slightly and pretended to be asleep. I remember R asking, "why are you pretending to be asleep?" Then she started to kiss up on my neck and G was looming over me. I was in so much shock and that's when I heard a knock on the door which was N asking what was going on in there.
I don't know what it was but when I heard him I jumped out and ran out the room pushing N out of my way and saying, "get the f*** out of my way" and was freaking out.
N was questioning G and R what was going on but they were saying nothing mind your business. I went outside and G's cousin and dad asked me if I was okay (they didn't know what happened they just said I looked a bit shook up but they probably thought it was the alcohol.) N took me aside to ask what happened and that's when I started crying. He really comforted me and was saying how this was his fault and he knows G is like this. I told him no it wasn't his fault. He held me for a while then took me to my car.
I couldn't drive because I was still really intoxicated so we decided to sleep in there. We had a conversation about what happened and N basically just apologized for G's actions and I said it was okay (I didn't think about how bad it could've gotten if N didn't come knocking on that door) and we just kept talking. It was really cold so he let me lay on his lap and we both were half asleep when we started kissing. I didn't push him off and vice versa. We both had a boyfriend and girlfriend at the time.
After that we were all still friends but it really just wasn't the same anymore. Near the end of the school year we just weren't on speaking terms except both N and G were friends previous to me so I basically left them.
This all came back up a few weeks ago when someone who was at the party told my boyfriend (now ex) about the situation that happened, EXCEPT THE WHOLE STORY WAS CHANGED. My boyfriend heard that I was flirting all up on them and willingly did all those things in G's room and about me and N.
I did tell my boyfriend that I kissed someone at the party right after but that was because I was too embarrassed to tell him what actually happened and now I'm mortified of what went down in that room. My boyfriend and I had a talk which just ended in me breaking up with him because I don't ever want to talk about it because it physically makes me sick of what my friend did who I trusted to protect me.
He still doesn't know what happened. No one still knows and I'm scared to say anything because of victim blaming and at the time I was already 18 and they were 16 and 17. I just don't know what to do. everyone thinks I'm a liar and a cheater and that they didn't do anything wrong and I'm just so upset..
I befriended these two juniors during my senior year in our art class, N and G and got somewhat close with N that I was inviting him to hang out with my friends at our high school football games, him and G invited my friends and I to G's house to hang out, and I slept over once previously alone with them and nothing happened.
One night sometime in March they invited me to come over to G's house for a party (his parents were hosting the party for their own friends already and N & G were already there with their other friends.)
The first plan was that I was suppose to be there only for an hour then I was suppose to meet up with another friend at another party, so when I told them this, G was trying to get me to stay and offered me some alcohol which I accepted. I met G's parent's female roommate, R, who I think is in her early 20s and we started talking.
I then went out back with these two other girls M and T who I already knew from school and smoked with them and they were there when G and the roommate were trying to get me to get into their hot tub which I declined because I didn't want to take off my clothes really.
At this point I was drunk and high and wanted to go sleep and about 25-30 minutes passed when G came out the hot tub and told me to come with him or I could stay out here. I went with him because I wanted to lay down and he guided me to his room. He said I could lay on his bed and crawled in right next to me and I thought that was it.
He then turned me around and started kissing me and I asked, "G, what are you doing?" and he said, "I don't know" then kept on going. He pulled up my shirt and bra and tried taking off my pants but I held onto them so he wouldn't and gave up eventually.
We lied there for a while and that's when I fell unconscious. I woke up a few minutes later to me giving him oral and pulled away.
He then got up to let someone in which was the female roommate, R.
I was panicking slightly and pretended to be asleep. I remember R asking, "why are you pretending to be asleep?" Then she started to kiss up on my neck and G was looming over me. I was in so much shock and that's when I heard a knock on the door which was N asking what was going on in there.
I don't know what it was but when I heard him I jumped out and ran out the room pushing N out of my way and saying, "get the f*** out of my way" and was freaking out.
N was questioning G and R what was going on but they were saying nothing mind your business. I went outside and G's cousin and dad asked me if I was okay (they didn't know what happened they just said I looked a bit shook up but they probably thought it was the alcohol.) N took me aside to ask what happened and that's when I started crying. He really comforted me and was saying how this was his fault and he knows G is like this. I told him no it wasn't his fault. He held me for a while then took me to my car.
I couldn't drive because I was still really intoxicated so we decided to sleep in there. We had a conversation about what happened and N basically just apologized for G's actions and I said it was okay (I didn't think about how bad it could've gotten if N didn't come knocking on that door) and we just kept talking. It was really cold so he let me lay on his lap and we both were half asleep when we started kissing. I didn't push him off and vice versa. We both had a boyfriend and girlfriend at the time.
After that we were all still friends but it really just wasn't the same anymore. Near the end of the school year we just weren't on speaking terms except both N and G were friends previous to me so I basically left them.
This all came back up a few weeks ago when someone who was at the party told my boyfriend (now ex) about the situation that happened, EXCEPT THE WHOLE STORY WAS CHANGED. My boyfriend heard that I was flirting all up on them and willingly did all those things in G's room and about me and N.
I did tell my boyfriend that I kissed someone at the party right after but that was because I was too embarrassed to tell him what actually happened and now I'm mortified of what went down in that room. My boyfriend and I had a talk which just ended in me breaking up with him because I don't ever want to talk about it because it physically makes me sick of what my friend did who I trusted to protect me.
He still doesn't know what happened. No one still knows and I'm scared to say anything because of victim blaming and at the time I was already 18 and they were 16 and 17. I just don't know what to do. everyone thinks I'm a liar and a cheater and that they didn't do anything wrong and I'm just so upset..
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