Relationship Is It Too Much To Ask For An Apology?

[Sighs]

PS - based on the number in your user name you and I are about the same age. Every once in a while I look at my vet and think what a gorgeous baby we would make together. Part of me is sad that we won't ever get to do that. (I had an awful time having my daughter, the autism is genetic - at least in part, and I don't actually want to start over with a screaming baby, but still... sigh!)

 

[Sweetpea76]

Oh yeah... I think my biological clock is just ticking too loud at times.

Starting over would be a shock to the system, and usually all we need to make us think twice about having a baby is a day of babysitting my 7 month old nephew. My sister, BTW, is only a few years younger than me and just had him. They had her listed as an "elderly mother" in her hospital charts when she delivered, and we had a bemused laugh at that.

Nothing make you feel a mid-life crisis coming on than seeing "elderly" listed by you name in a medical chart :wtf:

 

[Sighs]

Lol - I believe the correct medical term for a first time mother over 35 is 'geriatric primagravida'.

My vet has 4 grandkids with one more on the way. Having another one of his own now would confuse the family tree!

 

[Peach]

If the PTSD wasn't a factor

Oh Lord, how many time have I thought that!?!:banghead::shifty::rolleyes:

You two, @Sweetpea76 and @Sighs, are nuts! LOL:p

 

[Sweetpea76]

@Peach I try not to play that "what if" game. It's hard not to think about sometimes though. My vet is bad about doing it himself, and often times talks about what rank he would be now if he hadn't been injured etc. It's just not healthy.

 

[Sighs]

@Sweetpea76 - How are thing going?

 

[Sweetpea76]

He's actually doing better... they've adjusted his meds, and I think it is doing him some good *knock wood*. Hopefully it's not just a temporary thing and he feels better for awhile.

 

[Maryec]

I understand that lashing out behavior is a symptom, and it is going to happen sometimes. I know that...

My guy just pretends that type of stuff doesn't happen. If he ignores his bad behavior then of course it didn't happen, lol Yours sound insecure, like he knows you're smarter and needs to bring you down to build himself back up. I know the why doesn't help much but it may help you feel more sorry for him than "lesser than".