Jimmy, women marry men in uniform for a few reasons. glamor, the uniform, it makes them feel special that a military man would choose her and show her off, the benefits is the main reason it's a secure lifestyle to them, UNTIL our war ridden men return home and are destroyed from the ugliness of war. The glamor is gone, the uniform is gone alot of the time, the benefits start to fade for them because there is no BAQ etc after the vet who is injured and can't function gets out. As a female soldier who has ptsd severely I can speak like this because I've heard and seen it from the women first hand. Also, being a female with server combat ptsd I have a harder time than you guys do finding someone to cling to for help. no man wants a woman with the symptoms ptsd creates. this is the truth. I am glad at least one of our troops has found someone who cares and loves them even when the shit hits the fan. the rest of us just need to stick together and help one another as much as we can. HOOAH!