Lifestyle

[Liha]

Gebin, chill. You took that far more personal than the person who wrote it intended. You are attacking the other person because you feel defensive, I get that. Just know that it doesn't appear to me that Dula meant it in the context that you took it as. It also seems to me that the OP was edited?

 

[Uwaf]

No. I wish I was gay, to be honest! But I'm not.
Instead I am attracted to men that objectify, hurt and use me or men that battle addictions. I cant seem to change that either!!!
I agree with the other posters, I think you either are or you're not...

 

[Johebu]

That was very rude and not at all needed, And like, most people posting... I don't know why you all are so fussy.

To answer the question, no, I'm only attracted to men and I was a used by a man. But I knew I wasn't bi or a lesbian because I "dated" boys in my grade all the time.

Are women attractive? Yes. My anxiety and OCD actually used to be terrified f I was turning gay (which is not possible). I had that fear for a while when I hit puberty but for the most part it went away.

 

[Cupa]

Gebin, chill. You took that far more personal than the person who wrote it intended. You are attacking the other person b...

No attacking. Maybe you should get off your high horse too?

What's with all these people who feel the need to correct and educate everyone else?

 

[Otoz]

Yes, I am a woman who chose women over men because I have vaginismus due to the a abuse. My thinking was there's no point being with a man when I can't have sex. It hasn't worked out though because I'm straight. Disaster. I fear being alone forever.

 

[Itoju]

True. Men only want sex and if you don't give them sex by the third date at the latest, they dump you.

What is someone with sexual issues to do?

I just get tired of the romanticized notion of relationships when it really boils down to the woman being skinny/attractive and giving the guy sex.

 

[Ipej]

The women where I live aren't skinny but men don't care. It really does seem men are only interested in *that*

 

[Vecum]

I really hope a man can come on this thread and say it's not true!!!
Wish I was gay too as I want love a lot more than I want sex., and I only feel like sex when I feel loved!!
No hope for me...
Gay women must get so tired of straight women trying to make themselves gay - I wouldn't want to hurt another woman that way.

 

[Ibob]

I have yes. I felt safer with women, but when it became emotional... it was just as bad. What's weird is that I feel most comfortable with a man in a Dom/sub relationship which really shocks the heck out of me.

 

[Usune]

Yeah , menstrual, moody, hormonal. Menopausal hell.

I envy men. Gay ones.

 

[Gimu]

No.

I did in my teens and early 20s when i was trying to "be gay" and where i found out one cant "be gay".