Death My "baby" sister is dying...

[Missycat]

Oh @Lionheart777 i am so sorry and sad for you both.
There are no words. Sending love and hugs and know that you have friends here to talk to or just listen to you.
Take care xx

 

[Rani G2]

Sending you support Dear Lionheart.

 

[Lionheart]

I spent half the day with my sister at the hospital. We shared some tears and heartfelt hugs. I feel a little better about things. She is getting good care from hospice and we are seeing a little bit of improvement. Still, she told me she was just waiting to die and I said, "then we need to make the most of the time we have," and I hugged her. This seemed to comfort her a little bit. I have assured her that I will be okay and that she need not worry herself about me, which is a partial lie because I am taking all of this pretty hard.

This is so difficult, Once she is gone my life will not be the same....okay the tears are coming again so I better sign off for now.

Thank you so much to everyone for the support and kindness!!!

 

[Still Standing]

I am so sorry that you are having to experience the heartache of losing someone you love. It is a journey none of us want to take. How wonderful that you and she have such sweet memories of each other and share so much love. It will give you precious memories to wrap yourself in when she passes. The sad thing is that death is no a respecter of persons. It pushes us from one season into another. It is what we do with the next season that honors the life of the other. Perhaps, it would be a special thing for you to ask your sister what you could do to honor your relationship and love for each other, after she is gone. What would mean the most to her? Maybe that would help a tiny bit to heal your heart afterward? We are all here to support you and simply walk with you as you start a new journey of life. My heart hurts for you and your sis. O' to have such a friendship between siblings. What a very special gift!

 

[Tinyflame]

Dear @Lionheart777 :hug::hug::hug::hug:.

 

[AngelKeeperJ]

O' to have such a friendship between siblings. What a very special gift!

SO WELL STATED!:tup:
(My brothers and I are cordial but neither really knows the real me.)

(((@Lionheart777 )))
I am so sorry I have just seen this! I knew it was coming but didn't know it would be so soon. My heart aches for (((Sis))) and for (((you.)))

I know you would take this from her if you could. That's who you are as a man and especially as a brother. What an honor to be "with you" on this painful journey.

You are my DEAR FRIEND AND I would be there with you if I could! I have been doing my anxiety wheels about the trip. I will check in for updates while I am gone if I can.

YOU ARE SOOOO VERY LOVED AND APPRECIATED!!! :hug:

 

[Lionheart]

It is difficult to find the words to express how I'm feeling....this is so painful for me, still your prayers and kind words of support help to ease the pain. I know I am truly blessed, but the impending loss is emotionally very painful. At times I have some peace with what is happening, but then I will breakdown and cry from deep in my heart as I think back over 52 years of memories.

My nuclear family consisted of my mom and dad, who have passed, and my sister who is going to pass, and a younger brother who I cannot locate. I feel like I am all alone in the world even tho I still have my daughter and my niece, an extended family of about 8 people, plus my forum family.

You all are blessings to my weary soul and I love you and thank you from my heart of hearts.

 

[blackemerald1]

@Lionheart777 - I am so very sorry.
What a wonderful and brave brother you are!
Your sister is most blessed to have you by her side.
Take good care of yourself while you wait with your sister.
Much love,
b1

 

[Changing4Best]

:hug: Sorry you and your sister are going though this, @Lionheart777 and I wish you comfort and the peace of God which surpasses all understanding.

 

[mumstheword]

:hug::hug::hug::hug:(((((hugs))))))) @Lionheart777 this must be tough time for you. Be kind to yourself. Lots of Love.

 

[freebird]

Sending love and peace for you and your sister in her journey. Take care of yourself @Lionheart777.

 

[Iamsensative]

@Lionheart777
I so understand your pain. My son if fighting a rare cancer. I feel like the world is crumbling around me. Sending you so much love and hugs.