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Name that distorted cognition (thought/perception)

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The 10 primary cognitive distortions are:
  1. All or nothing thinking -- You see things in black and white categories. If your performance falls short of perfect, you see yourself as a total failure.
  2. Over-generalization -- You see a single negative event as a never-ending pattern of defeat.
  3. Mental filter -- You pick out a single negative detail and dwell on it so exclusively that your vision of all reality becomes darkened, like the drop of ink that colors the entire beaker of water.
  4. Disqualifying the positive -- You reject positive experiences by insisting they "don't count" for some reason or other. In this way you can maintain a negative belief that is contradicted by your everyday experiences.
  5. Jumping to conclusions -- You make a negative interpretation even though there are no definite facts that convincingly support your conclusion. (Involves mind-reading and fortune-telling.)
  6. Magnification and minimization -- You exaggerate the importance of things, or you inappropriately shrink things until they appear tiny.
  7. Emotional reasoning -- You assume that your emotions necessarily reflect the way things really are, as in "I feel it, therefore it must be true."
  8. Should statements -- You try to motivate yourself with "should" and "should not," as if you have to be whipped and punished before you could be expected to do anything.
  9. Labeling and mislabeling -- This is an extreme form of overgeneralization. Instead of describing your error, you attach a negative label to yourself.
  10. Personalization -- You see yourself as the cause of some negative external event which, in fact, you were not primarily responsible for
No longer are these thinking patterns pretty much my whole way of perceiving, thinking, knowing, feeling and being in the world. There are some gaps now. They are still there. I have to work on them on a daily basis, but this is a moment of improvement. It is a moment of victory. I can see these thought patterns are rubbish. I can notice when I am ruminating. I didn't know about rumination until 2013. So I know have some gaps and some small (tiny) spaces. I worked hard for them. I am proud of myself.
 
Jumping to conclusions -- You make a negative interpretation even though there are no definite facts that convincingly support your conclusion. (Involves mind-reading and fortune-telling.)
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Disputed this thought enough to have a few gaps in my thinking now. I am making small incremental steps.
 
Sigh.....#6

Received a phone call from my mother today, it's been 2.5m since I last heard from her and she sent me into a tailspin and caused my holiday pain to spiral.

Yet, I feel as if it's my responsibility to serve her. To do as she says so as to avoid a fight. I am shrinking all the pain and suffering she has inflicted, and turning it into nothing. No big deal....all is good.
 
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-practice/201301/50-common-cognitive-distortions

26. Cognitive Conformity "Seeing things the way people around you view them. Research has shown that this often happens at an unconscious level."

Having been recently marginalized and verbally abused by the both the Landlords for utilizing a charity for payment of this month's rent, I found I lost footing in healthy self-appraisal. Rumination increased as to my value, myself respect teetered and I almost caved to some of the pressure they applied, in order to smooth their viewpoint of me in anxiety of loosing my home.

I am glad to review this cognitive distortion and understand a bit more of some of the drivers at work.
 
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