No compassion for me even in tragedy.

[+littlebird]

I just read your post, Fadeaway, and I want to cry for you. I don't know your specific pain, but I know the horror and helpless humiliation of being accused of similar things. I've been threatened with pictures and videos "proving" I was a willing participant. The thought of anyone even knowing those things that happened, let alone thinking I wanted it to happen is almost more painful than the rapes themselves. I am so sorry for you! Many hugs if you accept them.

 

[Deleted member 541]

@Fadeaway One thing.... The truth ALWAYS comes to light one way or another. I know that this must be terribly hard on you and having people believe nasty shit about you. I went through something similar and I can tell you that yelling and screaming about it won’t help. Patience, kindness towards yourself and being the kind human that you are will go much further. This scumbag will eventually get found out and you will have your day.

:hug::hug: There will always be scumbags, and there will always be the day that the scumbags are found out!!!!

 

[Freida]

It is one thing to be an unwilling victim, but to be accused of being a willing participant...

"You know you wanted it". The words that leave you screaming in your head long after the physical wounds heal.

 

[ladee]

Pick your battles...I am sorry it has gotten so nasty. Take care of YOU first, and give yourself time to see how it will best benefit you to handle this.... supporting you what ever you decide to do..... lots of hugs.

 

[Fadeaway]

Right now I am just beyond knowing how to cope. One second I blood thirsty for justice and vengeance, and then the next fell like giving up totally because I know the law won't do shit to help and taking matters into my own hands... well I want too, but I don't think I could survive it either.

 

[Tornadic Thoughts]

No words of wisdom to add to what's already been shared, but I'm sending many thoughts of strength and support. It's so incredibly infuriating and crippling to have to deal with.

 

[Teasel]

My heart goes out to you, it's so painful to feel rejection and blame after terrible traumas.
I hope you find your way forward :inlove:

 

[hodge]

(((@Fadeaway)))

 

[Deleted member 40995]

Being raped = not deserving of compassion
Losing a parent to suicide = not deserving of compassion
Bei...

Fade you are so worth saving, you are kind and compassionate, youve helped me, you are caring and you deserve compassion too, Im so sorry you had those things happen :( I'm In sorry your husband is acting that way it's just not right. You Are Worth Saving, your life has so much worth. I care about you Fade:hug::hug::hug:

 

[Fadeaway]

Today has been a day of gut wrenching sobs. Hubby finally read the e-mail and the stuff posted on line. We ended up showing it to the cops who were called by neighbors because I just couldn't stop sobbing and we have thin walls. I asked what options I had legally but he told me basically none because anyone could have written it using their name.

I want vengeance, I want retribution. You guys are the only ones keeping me sane right now.

 

[Rani G2]

Sending support Fadeaway!

 

[shimmerz]

f*cking losers who have nothing better to do than to screw with other people's lives.

I have a couple of those in my life too Fadeaway. My deepest sympathies to you. I feel your pain. Sending you lots of strength.