hi Jen,
It is a good thing that your hubby is starting the course. and congratulations on making the 25 year mark. I've just passed one year, and it was hard, so 25 years is like a bit of a nightmare and a dream for me. If it is at all possible, I strongly recommend attending the women's sessions at the PTSD course. I found them extremely helpful. I started the course at the beginning of my relationship and through those sessions I found out exactly what I was in for. It prepared me a little. I am also in Townsville and I would just like to offer my shoulder any time you feel you need it. I know that the PTSD unit is there for you as well but sometimes it is really uncomfortable to talk to them. And trust me, if your hubby is anything like mine is, by the end of the second week, that course becomes the highlight of their day. Here's hoping all goes well for you both. I sincerely admire your strength for staying with, and obiously supporting, your husband for so long.