We're all here together in this particularly triggering environment of this trauma-related message board. I think everyone deserves some slack and I believe most everyone has good intentions. Life is full of frustration and we all need to test the boundaries sometimes to see where they are. I'm very, very grateful that you spoke up about it because this is a really important conversation. If no one says anything, it's just going to keep going the way it's always been.we all get set off about particular things.