Other Organized gang stalking target

[Ronin]

Why do you want to be stalked so badly?

I don't get it.
But I'd very much trade you, because not having to consider traps and alternate routes about the most mundane crap like where to grab one's groceries & pick up a friend so we're both safe sounds as a grand life.

 

[Neverthesame]

Some mysoginsyts can be really controlling over the smallest things

Except, this kind of person dislikes all women, not just you.

So the fact that I acted incurred the rage, not what the action was.

I would say the fact that you were the closest woman visible that was doing something "manly", that gave a cowardly little asshole an excuse to hurl abuse at someone who won't run his ass down and beat the shit out of him. He probably thought he was brave... :rolleyes:

a man approached her while she was walking her dog and started screaming at her about how a woman shouldn't be allowed to walk a dog alone in public without a man.

I hope the dog bit him.

I once worked at a gas station and as I was cleaning a woman's windshield she started yelling at me "you can't do this you're not strong enough this is a man's job go get a man to clean my windows"

Again, all women. What do you think would have happened if another woman had attempted to wash this lady's windows? Probably the same thing I'll wager.

The other thing I want to mention.
So you believe that you at some point did something to incurr a retaliatory effort on the slighted person?
A punishment is useless if you don't know what you did wrong. If someone is going to such extreme lengths to put the fear into you, they're sure going about it in a stupid way.
The message of "this is what happens when you piss off Mr. Ed". How are you and anyone around you going to appreciate the dangerousness of Mr. Ed, when nobody knows he's anything other than a talking horse?

I have worked retail jobs. Yeah. People are jerks, alot of people. Especially to a gas jockey. I think it's considered the lowest form of retail life.
I have had some unbelievably horrible customers when I worked at a gas station. Here's a few gems:

• Had a woman pin my hand in her window while I gave her back her change. She had the window down just enough for my hand to fit through, which I had to because she wouldn't put her hand closer than about 8 inches from the window. She suddenly snatched the receipt and change, rolled the window up before I could get my hand out, she then threw the car in gear and dragged me across the lot. She made no effort to stop even though I was screaming at her while smashing on her window. I got free of it because I was wearing gloves, which she took with her.
• I had a guy spray me with gasoline.
• I have been hit by three separate vehicles, two were hit and runs, one was actually a stuck throttle and was legitimately an accident. No serious injuries fortunately.
• Had a guy slam his engine lid down my head.
• Numerous death threats.
• Had someone throw a squeegee at me. They needed to work on their fastball, my grandmother could throw better than that.

All of this was in the space of a couple years, but I was not the only employee who experienced things like this. I absolutely believe it's possible for so many people to be jerks. The only thing about what I listed above had in common with each other was the location. Crazy shit like that doesn't happen to me when I'm out and about.

I'm also glad I don't work there anymore, that job sucked.

 

[Fadeaway]

This is a very difficult topic for me to understand. I don't want to validate anyone's experience, but I can't grasp why a group of people would do this with out reason. Maybe a vengeful ex and their friends, but complete strangers? The only person I knew personally who claimed to be gang stalked was also a paranoid meth head so I believe they were imagining it.

I am not saying anyone here is imagining it, I am just trying to understand more about it.

 

[Gs172003]

Who has the time to run around stalking people they don't know?

 

[shimmerz]

I was also followed by a car I didn't recognize for 30 miles last Thursday, but I can't prove it.

Use a car cam. That will prove whatever you need.

Listen, I was stalked by random strangers at the request of my ex et al. It was real. It can be real. I am just pulling myself out of a complete mental break because of it.

My suggestion is -- if you don't have a dog, get one. Cameras (ones that tape and are motion activated) everywhere. Motion activated very bright lights around your property. Alarm system if you can get one. Be careful that you have no extra pieces in your car if you are thinking it is being tracked (most trackers are mounted by the front windshield, under the hood). Put something by the doors like a stuffed animal or something so you can see if someone has entered your house. And again, a car cam. Also keep your cell phone handy and use the recording function any time you feel like you are being 'invaded'. If someone is stalking you they will NOT want to be taped and will leave.

That having been said, I literally verified that my thoughts were correct on this. So I checked the tapes of the cameras. I checked to make sure there was nobody in my house. I pointed cameras at everyone that felt 'creepy'. The ones that bolted.... well, that kept them away from me. I found the tracking device in my car. I verified with the company the model and serial number of it. It was confirmed as my ex's brothers. You don't want to fall down the rabbit hole of being overly sensitive to normal eye contact etc from stangers. It is very important that you check yourself and verify that you are not overreacting to normal stuff. That is what stalking does.

Also, I was called paranoid by the hospital when I first broke down and was taken to urgent care. I absolutely was NOT. Doctor, when I told him the story asked for verification from a 3rd person. I gave him a list of 10 friends, all in very respectable professions. He chose the grade 2 teacher that had known me since grade 10. I told him I would bring in the other 9 just to adjust his attitude. I get that people don't get how this affects people. I also get that it is possible to be pushed into a psychological mode that lends itself to thinking one is being stalked even after the stalking stops. There is a post in here somewhere where I went absolutely MAD with fear because I saw an extra cigarette butt in my ashtray at my house (long story). It turned out to be the cleaning lady that smoked.... so just be careful this stuff doesn't suck you into the paranoid rabbit hole.

I believe you. Stalking is real. It can also suck you into a psychological behaviour that can paranoia. You don't want that.

Instead of wasting a bunch of money on a tv box, you could have just chewed on a bit of tinfoil.

I really don't have much respect for someone who throws insults and hides under Anonymous. I get it, the post is 'out there' but man up if you want to rip someone apart with sarcasm and scorn. Use your name.

 

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@shimmerz in the cases where there is an ex involved I totally get it. Been there done that, still going through it. It the ones where it is complete strangers that mystifies me.

 

[shimmerz]

there is an ex involved I totally get it.

Thanks @Fadeaway. One of the things that had me really messed up with the experience I had was that they were strangers. My criminal lawyer b-i-l enlisted a bunch of his clients to follow me, terrorize me, break into the house, yadda, yadda, yadda. It is particularly effective because nobody believes you. Because it is too 'out there'. And one can't prove anything, of course, and one starts to suspect everyone. And the ex (who I was accusing of doing so.... ) goes 'What??? Who me?' Bats his eyelids and makes the victim look even crazier.

I have learned that it is easier for people to digest what to do with crazy (victimize) than evil. That's where the mobbing happens. The perp only has to spread 'crazy stories' about the victim and he has an entire groupie mob willing to go after the victim. The one's that don't want to be part of the mobbing don't bother to help the victim because they will be seen by the mob as someone who needs to be persuaded to STFU. Honestly, it works like a charm. And nobody believes the victim. Obviously.

It has been over 10 years for me. About 7 years without being stalked. I was in a grocery store the other day (which I am still afraid of) and this guy kept 'looking' at me. Now these days I am not much to look at. And he kept showing up. And looking at me. I left so completely disturbed, I can't even explain it. And that is actually what makes stalking with complete strangers so incredibly effective.

You know it is happening, but you never know where or when or if you are ever safe. Literally drives people insane. Evil. Twisted. Psychopathic. f*cks.

 

[Gs172003]

@shimmerz in the cases where there is an ex involved I totally get it. Been there d...

Agreed

 

[Tonya Kennedy]

I had never heard of this til it happened to me. My neighbors, family, friends, roommates, businesses t...

Hey, I just wanted to let you know this very exact same thing is happening to me with family, people I know, businesses, mostly treatment related places like alcohol and drug treatment people, my ex-husband, they can convince anyone to gang up on me and join in on mistreating me part of like you said community policing.

they can turn the heat on in the house to keep me from hearing what they are talking about, turn off the computer, the computer has malware on it. They can change my passwords to facebook, anything. They can talk to anyone about me, my parents gave them a run down of all the abuse I have ever suffered so they use that to psychologically abuse me more. They make light of abuse that I have already suffered like its a joke. They always threaten to send me to the state mental hospital or jail to scare me or keep me anxious or try to get me to be suicidal like you said to up your PTSD symptoms. EVERYTHING you described is what I am going through.

But how do we make them stop?

 

[Ronin]

Are you sure you're not misinterpreting social clues and/or taking things personally because of held fears and self concept, already?

Not saying that to dismiss you experiencing distress; just saying to reevaluate the source of that distress, and how much you're adding to it by how you view interactions.

I very much believe in oppression, stalking, gangs, and harassment. Separately or in any combination.
I don't believe in everyone and their mother being a trouble kind of conspiracies.
The moment things start being everyone? The issue isn't other people.

 

[Friday]

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