I may just have to experiment with natural stuff
Just because it says it is natural it does not mean that it will be okay for the baby. Plus, at least in America, those are not regulated so there is no guarantee you are getting the amounts, or the medicine, that it says.
I was told the first three months were the most important as far as development. You'll have to check on this.
Now as far as the FDA is concerned and side effects, etc., they have to print every reaction, during trials, that occurred during the trials. For example, a person may have had a heart attack during the trial, but they will report that as a possibility in the reactions for the medicine. Even if there is no guarantee that the heart attack was due to the medicine. I take everything with caution, especially supplements. I have too many various other medical issues, take other medications, that I really need to watch what is given to me. This is where my doctors team together so I am fortunate.
I guess, as far as warnings, it reminds me of the electrical warnings I read, or the warnings on other products. Like the do not use the hairdryer while taking a bath. There is only one person that has to happen to before it is reported. Of course I do think of all the things that may not have been reported.
Now, after all of this babbling. I did not go on anti depressants until, I believe, the third trimester. This is when I truly got bad in regards to my MDD. The baby feels everything you feel. My sons had no reactions, no weaning off, after they were born. They are 14 and 16 now. So far so good. Other then some medical issues they have that are genetic, there appears to be no adverse reaction.
I don't remember what med I was on. I know it wasn't paxil. It could have been effexor or lexapro. Really, I am not sure.
I realize how important it is to you. It was that way with me. Trust me, I watched them for years to make sure what I did did not effect them. I realize things still could have, but so part they haven't.
It is a big process. If you do go with supplements or vitamins, make sure you share this info with your doctor. For this, especially, it is important to have an open minded doc. Anyhow, this is so, if something goes wrong and they do have to give you something (like when I went into preterm), they won't give you something that may react with your supplements.
I wish you luck. It is a beautiful experience for those that want to go through it.