Relationship Ptsd And Raising Children

[Tamzyn]

Hello all-

I am new to these forums. I'm sure I'm like many in that I'm searching for answers or insights.

I have a parent that has been diagnosed with PTSD as of 8 months ago. My children and I live with my parents, for various mutually practical reasons, and have for 3 years now. I will certainly be reading as much as I can on these forums over the next few days, but I thought I might reach out to anyone that is raising children in a household that has been deeply affected by PTSD for advise and support.

I am at a loss as to how to continue to be a good parent to my children AND care for a sufferer as sometimes they feel extremely exclusive. It often feels like there is another child that needs caring for now, but my parent is not a child. I do not know how to respond when they are ruminating (sp?) or being verbally aggressive. My parents see a marriage therapist, and the sufferer sees both a psychiatrist and psychologist for meds and therapy. I'm not sure what to do for the kids and myself though. It truly feels like we live in a war zone most of the time.

Thanks in advance,

Tam

 

[Sunshine71]

Hi Tam
Welcome to the forum - I am quite new to it as well as the people here have been amazing.

My husband has PTSD and we have a 5 year old son.

It is very difficult and I often feel quite torn. I work for myself too so juggle developing a business during the day, try to spend time with my son and then have time for hubby and I in the evening.

Tonight it didnt work out as he slumped and had to go to bed.

I dont know if there are any correct answers or just taking each day as it comes making sure that you have spent time with your kids too. I know that living in a war zone must be terrible as kids know more than they let on.

For us its more a case of my husband not really spending any quality time with our son.

Maybe not much help but know that sadly there are other people dealing with this and maybe others will have some more ideas.

Wishing yu all the best

Sunshine