Princessxx
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It's been 3 and a half weeks since my boyfriend got into a hit and run accident.
We've been together for almost two years and we have never been apart. We talk everyday and see each other every night after work.We've lived together but for this semester I moved back in at home just because of our schedules. Everything is great with us.
He was on his way to my house like every night when he got hit. He flew out of his moped and way laying on the ground while cars drove past him. Finally, someone called for help. As a result of the hit and run, he got broken ribs and dislocated shoulder. He has been going to the hospital and also getting MRIs.
The hardest part of this for me is that my boyfriend chose not to tell me. He told his boss and his landlord the day after the accident and this how I found out. He has been staying at his friends house and only comes home to maybe shower and grab clothes. He is also using his friends car to go to his doctors and stuff since his moped doesn't work. I've reached out to him through letters and messages. He sees them but he chooses not to respond for reasons that I don't know.
I know for a fact that he is very stressed out. He was already stressed before the accident happened because he is financially alone, supporting himself and his mom. He has no family here and his mom lives in another state.
As his girlfriend, I'm extremely worried and all I want to do is be there for him. I'm seeing a therapist which helps but sometimes I can't but feel depressed. Sometimes I feel neglected and betrayed because he chose not to tell me when he knows I will be there for him.
Has anyone experienced this? Not having answers is killing me.
We've been together for almost two years and we have never been apart. We talk everyday and see each other every night after work.We've lived together but for this semester I moved back in at home just because of our schedules. Everything is great with us.
He was on his way to my house like every night when he got hit. He flew out of his moped and way laying on the ground while cars drove past him. Finally, someone called for help. As a result of the hit and run, he got broken ribs and dislocated shoulder. He has been going to the hospital and also getting MRIs.
The hardest part of this for me is that my boyfriend chose not to tell me. He told his boss and his landlord the day after the accident and this how I found out. He has been staying at his friends house and only comes home to maybe shower and grab clothes. He is also using his friends car to go to his doctors and stuff since his moped doesn't work. I've reached out to him through letters and messages. He sees them but he chooses not to respond for reasons that I don't know.
I know for a fact that he is very stressed out. He was already stressed before the accident happened because he is financially alone, supporting himself and his mom. He has no family here and his mom lives in another state.
As his girlfriend, I'm extremely worried and all I want to do is be there for him. I'm seeing a therapist which helps but sometimes I can't but feel depressed. Sometimes I feel neglected and betrayed because he chose not to tell me when he knows I will be there for him.
Has anyone experienced this? Not having answers is killing me.
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