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Well, SN, if it's all about controlling you, it's not a friendship. You are better off without that person.
 
I thought maybe one of your friend's were controlling you by giving you the silent treatment. That's why I said it's one less problem if my friend doesn't speak to me again. I'm not sure if that was the right thing to say in your case.

Hope this works out for you.
Tammy
 
Three of us met last night and tried to work things out between all of us in the whole group. I think some of the friendships are unsalvageable, but I did get a few things off my chest, and a few things got clarified. When there's multiple PTSD people in the group, at least one over-controlling person, several triggering people, and a dash of salt, the resulting recipe can be a disaster. Humans are full of faults.
 
I'm impressed! You did good. You were pro-active in resolving this issue and facing all the parties involved, at the same time. Damn proud of you!

I'm sorry some of the friendships are not going to work out. You did what you could though, so try not to beat yourself up over it!

bec
 
Sorry 2quilt that it didn't work out better. Maybe time will help to sooth things over, and things can be mended again....

Hugs
 
I agree, you did good.

What happened with you and your friends make me wonder if we should try to establish close friendships with other PTSD'ers. It seems to me that it would be a disaster waiting to happen. On the flip side,, it could help us learn to deal with our triggers?

Peace
Tammy
 
Well, I would say that I make friends with a large percentage of people who have at least a little PTSD from something in their past. I have only one friend with a mental health diagnosis that I know of, but I really believe that it's hard to go through life without being affected by direct or indirect trauma, mentally ill or strange family members, etc. But I can see how two very seriously ill PTSD'ers who trigger each other could not sustain a friendship without alot of patience, forgiveness, therapy, time out, and talking honestly. It sure would be a draining learning experience. Hopefully, true friends can talk openly about what is bothering them, and not do the silent treatment, or ask one friend not to tell another why she is mad and giving the silent treatment!
 
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