<grin>But I'm counting on the day when I do :)
And same token? I don’t talk about this shit in 99% of my real life. If not 99.999%
It helps to remind me that other people are often ALSO choosing to whom (and when/where) to talk about things that are this personal, and matter this much.
Some people do share everything with anyone. But for most people? They aren’t open books. They choose who/when/where/how much to share with others.
Some people also probably DO live golden lives. But most people, in my experience, have their own share of pain, darkness, trial, trouble. It may or may not be pain et al that I share, or relate to.
But? Finding “my people”, I have to agree, is one of those angels singing on high… BLISS… kinds of experiences.