Self Sabotage

[HappyJock]

Thanks. I used to be quite strong. I used to be a great friend. I used to be a loving wife. I used t...

I hear you. I mean, I can't fully understand where you're coming from, however, I do know that sometimes, we may feel as though we aren't strong -- but all it takes is guidance and lots of time tor re-connect with the person we once were. By either allowing something or someone to help us feel again. I truly hope you find who you once were, again!

PS: You're still all of those things. You're just going through something now, which makes it hard to see and access.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I think that I do self sabatog in different areas. I do not consider the consequences of what I am doing to undermine myself. I do not know where this came from but I have been struggling with this one for a while.

You deserve to heal and to get as much out of this life that is humanly possible in my opinion. We had to survive and we did and now our survival skills are working against us it seems to me.

 

[Tinyflame]

I can't really reply here now but would like to thank you @HappyJock for your posts, as they are pretty incredible. The first one too- 1000 likes, and can relate. Though I ddn't draw children. (But I recall someone asking why I never colored pictures of children with things I loved (eg horses) with brunette hair (mine), only blonde. Even then I never felt I couldl deserve (good things) ).

Anyway, thank you.