I just wanted to add a note. While this sentence may seem very severe, there were mitigating circumstances.
My ex has a long criminal history of crimes he has been charged and convicted for against this family. At times I felt the criminal justice system was a revolving door. I would contact the police, work with the investigators, go to trial as a witness, watch him be convicted, and then sentenced very lightly. However, no one should ever give up and when the law is violated pursue it.
It was these past convictions that weighed heavily during the sentencing process. He very easily could have received concurrent sentences for all charges and been looking at 20 years with eligibility for parole after 10. Finally this judge saw the history of escalation, and the damage, fear and desperation of this family.
For all fighting legal battles, please don't give up.