Sexual Thoughts

[Gahibu]

I have these thoughts. But I don't feel ashamed of them. I'm worried that I don't know the difference between arousal and panic, same thing to me. But I'm working on it. I now try to relax before being turned on. It's all about learning I guess. But fantasies don't have to become realities.

 

[Ocip]

That is such a tough subject and not one I have ever been able to talk about and seriously try not to think about either. Before I was married, I allowed those thoughts to be a more involved part of relationships, but it scared me. Ugh... Thanks for sharing. Food for thought and gives me something else to know that I need to work on eventually.