Friday
Moderator
Oh! I thought it was rude to dislike someone, lol.
At CasaFriday we define “rude” as attacking someone without touching them.
Whether that’s a look, a tone, words, or action/inaction... deliberate or accidental
(So sorry! Didn’t mean to be rude! = Wasn’t trying to attack you = similar to smashing someone in the face with your elbow at basketball on accident, or rounding a corner and knocking someone down. When done on accident? It’s an accident. >>> Whichnis why we pay attention to cultural rules, and round corners carefully ;) Accidents will still happen, but we try to minimize them, yeah?)
The FridayHouseRules for being rude? (IE What I teach my kids, and generally live by myself ;) ) Are the same for fighting.
When is it okay to attack someone?
- Defending yourself
- Defending someone else
- Learning to fight
So.... according to MY house rules? Disliking someone isn’t rude. Acting on that dislike may be rude, but that doesn’t mean it’s unwarranted. It’s a judgement call.