Slash your tyres kinda woman

[Deleted member 44579]

What kinda woman would you say you were. Me defo Slash your tyres. if you have bullied me at work... 3 times this happened to me in different jobs. So it felt righteous for payback... And I honestly say it felt f*cking great

 

[LuckiLee]

I tend to call them out on their BS. I had someone try to bully me more than once. Actually told her "you're a bully". If people F me over I cut them out of my life. I only keep kind, fun, honest people in my life. I've never retaliated but thought about it many times.

 

[MyWillow]

I walk away and assume it’s me most of the time. Sometimes I lose my shit and say something but it’s rare.

 

[Deleted member 44579]

I think for me it's the way I was brought up. And I'm a Lioness. A Leo. And no, not the crap horoscopes you read in the paper... I'm taking about your birth chart... This stuff is centuries old...

 

[Skywatcher]

@Xena I’m scared of “slash your tires” kind of people.

 

[EveHarrington]

Wow, you really slash people’s tires?

Not only is this illegal, but wouldn’t it be better to stand up for yourself? Report it to your manager?

Well, I’m saying as opposed to risking a criminal record, court fees, fines, and so forth.

If you end up with a criminal record and fines, haven’t they still won?

 

[DharmaGirl]

And I honestly say it felt f*cking great

You just admitted to a crime on a public forum. Slashing tires is a coward's way of retribution, no one can prove it was you unless you confessed, which you just did. Why do you feel the need to brag about your crimes?

 

[EveHarrington]

I think for me it's the way I was brought up. And I'm a Lioness. A Leo. And no, not the crap horoscopes you read in the paper... I'm taking about your birth chart... This stuff is centuries old...

You were brought up to victimize people?!?

You do realize what kind of population you are talking to here, right?

 

[Deleted member 44579]

You just admitted to a crime on a public forum. Slashing tires is a coward's way of retribution, no one can prove it was you unless you confessed, which you just did. Why do you feel the need to brag about your crimes?

And your problem is?.. Im not boasting... And obviously you are the one who has issues

 

[EveHarrington]

Can I ask where you think this behavior comes from?

Do you think that in a way it’s getting “justice”...?

...acting out against people who have done you wrong, as a way of conquering your trauma, since you weren’t able to act out against your abusers and make them “pay” for what they did to you?

 

[Abstract]

It is sometimes useful to look at what is happening internally for us with our perception of things. You say it felt f*cking good. Do you know more specifically what was good about it? What did it say to you about You or Them. No pressure to answer.

 

[DharmaGirl]

I don't have a problem. You may have anger, but expressing it in the way you do is wrong, and it is not ok in our society. You are assuming I'm attacking you, which I'm not, so therefor that gives you the right to act on your fear by being angry?

Well spoken, @Abstract.