Relationship Starting out - have i already messed up

[vj17]

Haha oh I have started to get deep feelings for him but I am also in a place where I can still shelve those for a friendship.

He did say to me when telling me a friendship is all he wanted that maybe that means he’s making the biggest mistake ever, ie maybe missing out on what could be a great relationship. I know he has feelings for me too, and he ihas been affectionate etc then me too, and maybe that’s another reason it’d be too hard for us to be friends. I just feel physically sick he’s withdrawn to the point of saying I’d never hear from him again.

 

[ken south]

@anon1234 I have had a similar experience. I will say that I believe that at some level continued contact would be a good thing, it is finding the right balance and tone that is difficult. In my relationship, we are at a crossroads due to my actions so things have slowed down but she still wants to hear from me, just not as detailed as before. He may appreciate that you are thinking of him.