Her job and work mates are important to her, as they should be. (me a squaddie, sat with a load of teachers, could be a disaster even if I was right. "get your tits out" and "NAKED BAR!" wouldn't go down well!)
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I dunno my sister was a teacher and went out for drinks with her friends one night and they had this salty old sailor blushing after a bit lol...
Thanks Dave, what you said meant a lot to me....