Once I made the mistake of telling a partner about pictures existing. He just looked down on me (hahaha) and said “I don’t think of you any differently and won’t be upset if they get out”. Which really, was his way of putting shame on me in a passive aggressive sort of way. I don’t care that the pictures exist. I don’t even care if they get out! I know the person who has them isn’t going to post them. I think he was just prudish. I mean it’s this “my body is a temple” BS that I don’t personally believe in. My body being “mine”....nope!