I can cope with all of this, I can really. I do it for love, knowing that she is a different person and that this not the woman I love. So, where did she go, Hawaii, and who is this person they left behind. This demanding, controlling, and unsatisfiable individual. When will she come back because I miss her. This other wife is mean, spiteful, nasty and vile. She brings up the past that has no meaning on the now, calls me names, says I am worthless, and tells me that I am the worst thing that has ever happened to her. I need some ones arms around me. I need to know I am not a bane on her. I need to know that I am worth love!