Oh Britt! He's wonderful! I couldn't be more happy for you. Your hubby gets major points from me for an excellent choice!
Btw, on the subject of weighted blankets: I just got one.
OMG, do they work!!! Along with the blanket, I got a 5-pound neck wrap.
The skinny: when I'm triggered and need to be held, the neck wrap works great. It makes me immediately relax.
For crashes, the blanket is awesome. Curl up under it, it feels incredibly safe and comforting, relaxing my whole body.
My impression is that it's not good for the closterphobic. (sp?)
Pros: relief on call
Cons: price - the neck wrap and 17-pound blanket put me out $165. Sensory Goods is the cheapest I found.