The last of the mother figures

[IamFree]

Even though my heart knows it feels right I have to be mindful of the greif to. Ive spent most of my adulthood as a perpeptual boy looking for mother after abandonment by my biological mother. No goods ever come of it though just a lot of codependency. finally had the strength to let go of such a relationship ..Its not that she was a bad person but a member of a rigid beleif system and had a desire to convert me and had a difficult relationship with her own son. I finally realised that by latching on to other familys to try and replace your own you just end up with double the trouble as all familys have crap so I may as well just stick to my own familys crap. Would love to hear from those who have had any similair experiences.

 

[Deleted member 541]

Why do you try and surround yourself with families? Why not just try and give yourself a break by loving yourself. I know it's hard, we all want to be part of something, but if it isn't possible, then do it yourself. Then spread your wings and just be with people that you respect and they respect you.