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The Most Insane Week In A Long While

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Biz

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I'm writing to connect and to vent. I have had the most insane, ungrounded, hectic, panicky week I've had in a long while.

My roof has been leaking on and off for 2+ years since I moved to my apartment. On Wednesday of last week, my landlord emailed me to say that they had re-rubberized it and I should be good but to keep him updated. That same day, there was a crazy storm and it leaked. My closet and clothes were again soaked. I emailed him, two emails. One, the roof is still leaking. Two, I am a reliable, responsible tenant my job is to pay rent and report these issues and the property management company should handle them. His response, "I understand, I'll break your lease by out by the end of the month." He gave me six days. In Colorado, apparently month to month renters (which I was) only legally are required to be given seven. I responded saying maybe there'd been a miscommunication and I just wanted the issue addressed. He said, move out so I can fix it. I consulted my law options, and the attorney said it could drag out especially because the leaky roof is a major violation, but if I can afford to move, I should. So, the past week all I've been doing is packing, trying to find a place to stay, and moving things to friend's houses.

Then, on top of the roof issue. I get a call from my parents that they received a bill $3.5k from a University for a class I didn't know I was signed up for and never attended. This is the first I'd heard of any of it. I submitted an appeals packet to them earlier this week. I found a place to stay for July and signed on a place for August 15. And, on Monday, I ended it with the new therapist because I can't afford her regularly right now (but I still have my meditation teacher/reiki practitioner to support me).

One of the more stressful weeks of my life.
 
I'm really sorry to read about your stressful week. I know all-too-well about unresponsive landlords, so I definitely empathize with you there.

I hope things start looking up for you soon, and, if you ever want someone to talk to, I'll lend you an ear!
 
I can't believe your landlord is ending your lease. If it's been leaking you're better off out of there. Wish you wet given more time. Moving is stressful even in the best of situations. Take time out to get the rest you need to get through this.
 
@Biz in a similar situation when lease turned to 30 day and safety health issues not being resolved. Axe over my head if I complain about safety and health issues notice given. What I have found out is to withhold rent and put it into an escrow account, have work done that the landlords did not do under law, and send receipts for work done.

Question of "should I stay or should I go now?" is very hard. I stay, or try to because of my dog, and it is mostly a very quiet nature environment. Old 40's fishing cabin on a tiny lake. I have to be outdoors most of my day. Inside is for basics only. My thoughts with you.
 
@KwanYingirl, that's how my roommate and I felt too. We consulted with a lawyer, but we ultimately decided that just getting out and leaving this place behind would be better.

@Changeling, Thanks for the response. Your tiny cabin and dog time sounds nice. The only advantages to this place were cheap rent and a gas stove. I think the new place will at least have less stimuli and it'll have a balcony so it'll feel like an upgrade.
 
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