There Are Children Involved Now !

[Lady of Longbourn]

I posted a thread about reporting my rapist but..... I found out that my rapist has a child and is dating a women who has children.

I can't even describe how that makes me feel....I'm shaking and breathing hard. I can't think straight. All the damn things he did to me are flashing though my brain.

At first I was like It's not my business, but how can I say that? They are children, what if he touches them and hurts them??? God, I had a child with him too. Would I want to put my child though that???

And I can do something, I can report him. How can I keep quite now?

 

[Jen93]

Have you ever reported him before? Did you take him to court?

That's quite disturbing to hear that type of thing about him having a child of his own, but maybe he is trying to be a better person... I don't know. I understand your anxiety, but if he's already been in jail for the crime, then he's basically a free person now.

I don't mean for this to sound cold, but that is the view that law enforcement would be likely to have. It is important that you keep yourself safe and remember that he can't hurt you now. If you know this about his family, it's possible that you're somehow keeping in touch with him? It might be best to just take care of yourself, remind yourself that you are safe now and surrounded by people who care about you and can help you.

I'm sorry you have to go through this.

 

[AngelKeeperJ]

(((Ayesha))) I am SO sorry about this news you've recieved! I would feel the same. Sick, angry, and afraid, that this monster is around children.

Please take care of yourself, as your 'triggers' are probably going full-speed. I don't know what to say about you being able to do anything about him. Legally, unless he has a record, or you have personal knowledge of abuse, there is not much you can do.

 

[intothelight]

Ayesha,

I am so sorry to hear this and I am aware the police dismissed your case. This is a tough spot to be in.

(((Hugs)))

Deb