Unsure What To Do Next?

[Ice_Fire]

This sucks. I am losing her after all. Won't see her until Sept now and then we've only got 10 sessions. :cry::poop:

 

[piratelady]

((Ice_Fire)) I'm sorry to hear that.

 

[Ice_Fire]

Yeah, me too. :poop:

Thanks for the hug. (((Piratelady)))

 

[Ice_Fire]

T said she will find me a good new counselor who she trusts and thinks I'll work well with and she'll go to my first session, maybe two, with them to make the transition a bit easier.

But I want her! :cry:

 

[Deleted member 12723]

(((Ice_Fire))) What are you going to do now? I am so sorry you are experiencing so many losses all at once. I hope you will find some good solutions to your need of a therapist for August. I cannot imagine how you are feeling right now. You sure have your share of so much suspense. I hope it all works out and a way is opened for you to be able to get some quality help. Big hugs.

 

[Smushroom]

Im so sorry to hear that. Big hugs to you xx I am sort of in the same position at the moment. My main T is still with me, and I honestly think I would die if anything happened to her, or if I had to stop seeing her, but I also started accessing another service. Even though I have only spoken to this other lady maybe 6 times, I felt comfortable with her. During our session last week, basically the first thing that she said was she had spoken to my other T (my main one) and it was decided that I would need long term support, and she just didn't have room in her caseload for me. I shut down immediately. I'm still questioning all the same things as you. I feel rejected...abandoned...too messed up for her to deal with. Im still so very sad. That was supposed to be our last session too, no warning or anything. She said she had set up appointments with the new lady, but because I couldn't make those ones, she has scheduled me in for 2 more with her, then the new lady takes over. I am actually thinking of just stopping. My main T is fantastic, maybe I can cope without needing to see the other one. I don't know...

But I feel your pain :( And I am sorry to hear this

 

[Ice_Fire]

Well, I'm on my own for August, I'm away for two weeks anyway. All we can really do here in the UK, as far as I know, is ring something like Samaritans if needs be.

(((hugs back)))

 

[Ice_Fire]

(((Smushroom))) I'm so sorry you're experiencing this as well right now. That sucks. I've been told by my current T that she thinks I'll need long term support too and she just isn't able to do it, because of the nature of who she works for. Ending without any preparation would have been :poop:. I've got 10 more sessions, although, it now seems pointless, like the hours left are just a cruel countdown to the end of the world...my world anyway. I'm glad you like the new lady, that's something at least I guess.

 

[Smushroom]

I haven't met the new new lady yet, and don't think I plan to. It probably seems pointless, and maybe to an extent it is, but just think of all the poison you are getting out with someone you trust. You may meet your new T and realise they are a lovely person. It will probably take all that time again to build the trust up, but as soon as you do, it will be easier to talk again.

Sorry I can't be of more help. I'm trying to convinve myself of these things too *hugs*

 

[Ice_Fire]

Sorry, my bad. I must have miss read it.

Yeah it does seem pointless to start again. My current T said she would find me someone she thinks I'll like.

But before I know it, I'll be leaving for uni anyway,so...why bother? It took me do long to build up the trust with my current T...to start over. I'll never get anywhere. :(

(((hugs)))