Ok guys, I get it. I should have explained more in my post. The group they put me in has members whose trauma comes from non-combat events.
When I was submitted to the Clinic, I ended up in a group of twelve, the nearest to the military was "a" Fireman. all the others were "Civvie" trauma, Baby Blues, one lass had lost her girlfriend in a car accident, a guy had been thrown out by his and left with nothing, sort of stuff.
Now I can relate to what you were saying JP mate. I couldn`t talk in the group. There bitching about who left the bloody toilet seat up would just wind me up. But then again, for them at that moment in their life it was like a hole in the ground had opened and was trying to swallow them. for me, they we just f*cking idiots who were wasting my time.
I totally understand that many whose main job was supposed to be supply or whatever experienced at least some combat and to them all my hat is off. I apologize to any I offended in my post..
I doubt very much, if you realy "Offended" any one on here JP. we all see things in our own, dysfunctional way. Me for my part am not offended. "at ease soldier"
My main problem is actually with those who are what I call "working it" meaning they really did not experience a thing but are trying to pull the wool over the eyes of our VA to get compensation..
I must admit, that being a Brit in Germany, I have no contact to any of the VA related stuff, I am hauling the long Civvie road of Therapist, who don`t realy understand a thing. The local Health service picks up the tab, and I have never been bothered about try for compensation. I still think along the lines of "you wanted to be a soldier, you know what can happen". The worst I have is dealing with the RBL, as to when the next piss up is :cool:
No hard feelings cocker :tup:, every thing is just peachy
Chin up