What Makes You Angry Today?

[OldDoorGunner]

My brother in law pisses me off tonight. So I must admit I drank more then I should have and it was all fun and games until he got serious and when I have had to much to drink I have no filter... and I didn't hold anything back before I realized what I said until after I said it. But I only told him about how life is like dealing with ptsd and it got to much for even drunk me and I said I need some time to relax so I went into a different room to do some breathing exercises to calm myself down but he followed me into the room and continued to talk to me.... So I stud up and pushed him. Then he got really aggressive and I was ready for combat and my wife stepped in and did her best to keep the peace. I ended up deciding that I needed to get out of the situation before I did something I regret so I went for a two hour walk. After I came back he said some stuff about never laying my hands on him ever again and I didn't say anything because I would have said something I regretted in the morning and now I'm upstairs away from him in mutt wife and my bedroom doing my breathing techniques as I write this to calm myself down.

You did good.....always remember that. Me on the other hand, I would have beat the f*cking shit out of him after walking for 2 hours. And then when you get back, him saying something about never laying hands on him ever again!!! That is when I would put the boots to his ass, but good. But I am not you and you did what you thought best at the time.

But remember this, sometimes you have to get your point across and giving a good ass whooping works. Does not matter who they are!!! Over the years I have had a few relatives, that yes I kicked their ass real good. They don't f*ck with me....and that is good for them.....I sometimes wish they would, as I would kick their ass again, as I don't give a f*ck. They on the other hand, just have big mouths and think they are something. Not.......At times Brother, you need to take a stand and not let anyone push you around and walk on you.....IT WILL NOT BE GOOD FOR THE BEAST!!!! In the long run it's not good for your PTSD.......All this shit builds up after some time, you do not need this......

Sorry if I came across a hard ass, but that is just what I am. Anyone gets in my face they get one warning......

J R

 

[holdenmonty]

You are good ODG. I really wanted to but I didn't want him bleeding all over my house and if I would have beat his ass like he deserved the cops would have been called and being on base it would turn ugly for me real fast and all he would have is a busted up face. But yesterday after he sobered up I told him that it could never happen again and if it does he is going to get his ass handed to him. He then apologized for being an ass and claimed he was saying everything out of love... but it's in the past now and I'm trying to convince the wife that he has officially worn out his welcome and needs to find a place of his own, and that he can't be drinking in excess anymore because I trust him when he's sober but once he starts drinking I don't trust him and I told him if he pulls that shit again after getting his ass handed to him I'm going to throw him out of my house, and I don't care where he goes as long as he isn't around me and my family.

 

[Lurch]

@Link Removed there is no easy way to explain to kids what we go through each day and what we have gone through. I have had to set boundary rules for my 10 yo. Even then they forget and came at you. Mine learned during an unfortunate event. I told him to never wake me up by getting on me. Did good for a while, with very few exceptions. One day he thought I was awake since I was twitching so he climbed on me. A grunt yell and a punch to the chest, he learned not to do that again. Still remembers that today. I am very grateful for not injuring him. A rule he violates almost weekly, no loud singing or noise after 1900. He forgets and starts to sing and dance in the shower, my authoritative voice comes out to remind him.

I have to remind myself that he is just a kid, doing kid things. I wish I was as carefree as he is.....

 

[holdenmonty]

I hear you there Nak and Lurch. I have a three year old and a one year old I have to constantly remind myself that they are just being a kid doing kid things. Especially when they are running around and yelling and wanting to get up on my lap then move all around then get down then get back up and do the exact same thing over and over and over. I'm already starting to think of some ground rules for my brother in law so he doesn't think that he's being funny when he's actually being an ass and pissing me off.

 

[atilla]

Not good for a non-hacker pissing vets off. Makes my nutts draw up...lol

 

[Sludge]

What makes me angry today?
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[holdenmonty]

What pisses me off today is stupid shit. So long story short one of the people I work with needs Roxio on his work computer I asked the person that has authority to install software to install it since it's approved. That person then replies back to me and the individual that they shouldn't need it and that you can burn a cd just fine, but on this individuals computer it doesn't finish burning the cd and just wastes the cd, so anyway it is now discovered that the individual in fact needs to have Roxio installed on his work computer... then the person that has the authority it install software said that it didn't work on somebodies work computer that was pretty old and wants to know what kind of computer he is using... Why the hell is this one thing such a long drawn out process of e-mails back and forth when the person that has the authority could call the individual that needs the software on their computer... Such stupid bullshit. I think I need to borrow Sludge's pic.

 

[Raven]

Jesus f*cking Christ...

Three (and a half? idk) years ago, I got involved with a man. Briefly. It turned out he was married, so that was that. I didn't want to be the "other woman", and the shitlord told me he was single me just to get laid behind his wife's back.

I guess he came clean to his wife, and told her who I was and how to reach me...

f*ck you, lady, get your head out of your ass!

 

[Raven]

I "wrecked their family" and I am "110% to blame".

...How does this compute? And even if I knew, how would it be all my fault?

 

[holdenmonty]

I'm with you there Raven. You didn't know he was married it's that dumbasses fault. He's the one that wrecked their family. He wrecked it when he approached you, and in my opinion he had no right telling her how to contact you. That is a total weak ass move on his part, he doesn't even deserve the right to be called a man. I would take his man card and set it on fire in front of him because that is some of the dumbest shit I have ever heard of somebody doing. What a piece of shit to do that.

 

[Raven]

I had pretty much forgotten about that whole fiasco by now. Yesterday, she sent me an angry e-mail. Of course, her asshat husband must spun a tale about how I seduced him even though I knew he was married and bluhbluhbluh. He lied to me. He lies to her. Hardly surprising.

I patiently replied to her e-mail explaining that I had no knowledge of his marriage when I was involved with him, and then I broke things off when he confessed that he was married, that I'm sorry she's going through this, etc. I even offered to contact my mobile carrier about getting the text logs to send her, in case she wants to use them as ammunition in a divorce.

I still felt really sorry for her until she e-mailed me again, still pinning the blame on me, calling me a whore and a liar and a bunch of other colorful names.

 

[Friday]

I am a teensy bit vexed with my mother at the moment.

Any of y'all ever feel bad about your parenting?... Chat me up and I'll make you feel all better by giving you a spoonful of my psycho-ex. Or even just your right to play the human card. Been divorced 3 years now, and if our marriage was ugly, at least the divorce stayed in theme. There are probably worse exes, maybe even worse people, but when I set out to do a thing? I don't do things by halves. Most of my exes are lovely people. Maybe best evidenced by the fact that they still talk to me, on purpose, and in all of those cases I was the asshole. Saints. For real. So in my outstanding judgement I didn't marry any of them. Oh no... I had to go and be about retarded. Head. Drywall. Head. Drywall. Never be the sanest one in a relationship. Or, as a friend told me recently, "First rule of the men's locker room: Never stick your dick in crazy." Dude. That doesn't help me.

Back to my mom. Where is she right now? Out buying the pestilential c*nt presents. Because clearly, the way to be on side here, is to suck up to my ex. Thanks, mom. Lovin the loyalty.

Besides. I already tried that years ago, and it doesn't work.