Hahahhaah,, wow, I love this thread. Never had that many responses from one thread and that too from a lot of different people :p. My hearty thanks to everyone for writing here. I have been asking all these questions while growing up, before joining this forum I used to ask question like this (not exactly this) on yahoo answers in philosophy section because I wanted to get an insight on why we do all these things and what is the point of it all. I have read few books, some online literature by some philosophers and I always end up asking more questions.
@Lionheart777 : Yup, you are right. I was thinking about what would I be like if there wasn't any domestic violence at home, there was no gender inequality at home, and all sorts of abuse happening at home. I think I would've been a very strong character. As a child I had strong views on things and no one could force me to do things, I was a rebel when it came to morals and ethics. I always looked for what was right. I absolutely hated lies I was told by my parents. You know the one question that has always been in my head growing up and even now is that "why the hell are people hurting each other, rushing into things, being cruel etc etc without realizing that one day they will be in a graveyard and none of these things will matter anymore. I know that to live we need all these superficial things and it our duty to fulfill our humanly needs but I totally disagree how some people do it (i.e. stepping on others, frauds, hurting others etc)."
@FridayJones : You always get me thinking about my questions and everything else. Thanks for keeping my mind challenged, absolutely love your replies all the threads. You are a deep thinker. I will agree with you that the world would be boring without dreams, ambitions, hopes and skills. The only thing that was running through my head was when people go for those dreams and ambitions by stepping on others (i.e. narcissists).
@Eleanor: Lol, hahahah. I used to think about all those things that you've written (i.e. people riding horses, playing happy music, living with a herd of animals, eating home grown vegetables, and happy -happy at the end). I always wanted to have a farmhouse growing up and living with all types of animals (cat, dog, horse, donkey, hens, ducks, rabbits, cows, monkey, etc - pretty much a zoo) lol hahhaha.
@joeylittle : I agree with you. Trauma is not something which is has a purpose but I have learned a lot from all this. I have learned what kind of person I
don't want to be and what type of person I
want to be.
Thanks everyone, I absolutely loved these answers. Some of them are still making me laugh. I have a huge grin on my face while writing my reply :D :)