When You Both Have Ptsd?

[feelgoodinc.]

I don't mind, it's okay. Sorry I did the quote thing wrong also.

I agree that a dom should preferably be highly stable. It does bother me sometimes. It would be so nice if he weren't ill but he is. I love him and want to care for him. I have never seen him this angry before.

This is my first D/S relationship. I have met some of his friends who are also in D/S relationships, but only once. I am aware I probably sound like a fool for having hoped it could work.

 

[cupfish]

Me too, both hubby and I have c-ptsd. He is 10 years older. For the first 5 years living together our fights were horrific, lasting for days. Then as he began to understand his triggers he began recovering more quickly (1-2 days) and I would still suffer for a week. Now I have gained resiliency and we both recover 1-2 days. Although managing your sick head and his can be a burden, IF you communicate relentlessly and IF you are both totally transparent you will help each other heal. S/D isn't harmful if you're both in lock step on limits and your healing is progressing. Xxxx

 

[Cavegirl]

It's perfectly ok to be in a D/s relationship that only occurs in the bedroom. I refuse to be submissive outside the bedroom. I'm really easy going so I tend to do things the way men want anyway but I always reserve the right to be equal outside of playtime.