Why would someone you hardly see freak out when you say ok, this isn’t a relationship, we should part ways?

[EveHarrington]

Why would someone hardly ever want to see you (ie a couple of hours a month at most) but then freak out when you say ok, this isn’t a relationship, we should part ways?

(Romantic relationship)

It makes no sense to me. If you really don’t want to see me, why would you want to be in a relationship with me?

And no, it’s not just a booty call situation. We haven’t had sex in awhile.

Thanks.

 

[KayW]

Theres so many reasons, from the good (or at least reasonable), the bad and the ugly. But I think its reasonable to want to understand why.

I think maybe the way to go about it is to think about asking them, and how to ask them.

 

[arfie]

another vote to ask because the possibilities are too many to hazard guesses, especially for folks who have never met the player in question, but a general gee is that it is all too easy to like the IDEA of an ideal while remaining clueless on the pesky details of maintaining that ideal.

 

[EveHarrington]

Never mind