Supporter Wife Of A Veteran

[mamabuckeye]

Hi all. Just wanted to post a short introduction before I start to browse the threads. My husband is medically retiring from the Army (ankle and heart) and is in the process do being diagnosed for PTSD. He has been on 6 combat deployments (I've supported him through them all) - his last being Afghanistan that really threw things into a downward spiral.

I always had an inkling that he had PTSD, but never looked into it as I had to focus on just surviving day after day trying to do everything on my own and to keep things peaceful so he wouldn't get overly stressed. Now that I am researching it makes total sense. From my small view, I always assumed PTSD the soldier was consumed with nightmares, and startled at loud noises (neither of which my husband has). Boy was I wrong! He has so many other symptoms that I was unaware of before.

Just writing that was so freeing. I have been so overwhelmed over the years (at least 7!) and it is great to know why (or at least where a majority stems from). I look forward to the progress he makes and will still stand by his side, but this time armed with knowledge.

 

[BLHutch]

Two things:

1. Welcome to the forum
2. I thank your husband for his service.

The symptoms of PTSD can vary slightly from person to person. I experience nightmares regularly. Flashbacks every now and then. My biggest issue is actually the short term memory loss and inability to concentrate. That is probably because of the effect that has on my job. I applaud you for taking the time to really look into the dynamics of PTSD. It takes a lot of courage to stand by a spouse who suffers from it. (Just ask my wife!) Knowledge is power and you can't fight the demon that is PTSD without knowing exactly what you are dealing with.

Just as our veterans show great courage in what they do on our behalf, so too do the spouses of veterans as they stand by them and support them as they try to cope with what they have seen overseas. Your husband is lucky to have you on his side.

Hutch