Women, Have You Ever Been With A Married/taken Man?

[Pujef]

Way to go! Great job! :tup:

 

[Huraga]

So proud of you for making a choice for your own wellbeing! You deserve it!

 

[Ucow]

Not a fun road. Very hard to deal with. Contributed to and was a symptom of my C-PTSD. If you can avoid it, that is best for you. Good luck.

 

[Pico]

Do I accept being with him?? I'm confused!

God NO!!!!!! It will only end in heart ache for everyone. Including his poor wife, who probably thinks she has a wonderful and loyal husband. He is just playing the field hun, please do not get involved. A massive dating NO NO. You are worth so much more that this.

If your self esteem was high you would brush this chancer off without another thought.

I can not say this too much, please do not get involved with people already in relationships, no matter what they tell you.

If he is genuinely interested, tell him to leave her and come and see you when he does and you will think about it. He cannot have it both ways. He is thinking from his loins.

I know it is confusing but they are lustfully feeling from him not love or respectful ones.

http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/ this is a fantastic blog site and it has really helped me, hopefully it will you :)

Best wishes

 

[Cujoguz]

I have been with two men who were taken, but it was just a sexual relationship. And I was having sex with other men while seeing those taken men too.

I was a bit of a slut.

I knew they were taken...but I didn't care. It wasn't like I didn't feel sorry for the woman who's man I was sleeping with...it was I was usually to f*cked up to notice.

 

[Solon]

I was a bit of a slut lol... and how are you doing now? Dinar here*

 

[Uvifi]

A lot better. Sometimes I miss it but the sex is better with my long term partner.

But it was sort of fun to have sex with those men. It was very carefree. With one of them we had sex in his living room with the front door open....someone walking by...it was a small house right next to the road.

Like I said...slutty.

How about you Dinar?

 

[Solon]

you are in a long term relatinship, that's nice... I have never been in a long term relatinship, I have never been in any 'proper' relationship actually haha that just doesn't happen to me, it's too complicated I think... I'm a Forever Alone =)

>dinar

 

[Ilav]

Also, isn't being the man (who is taken) isn't it his choice? Why does it make us, the 'other woman' bad? I didn't know at first, I found out later and at that point I didn't care. It was just nice to hang out with someone...

 

[Azaz]

Also, isn't being the man (who is taken) isn't it his choice? Why does it make us, the 'other woman' bad? I didn't know at first, I found out later and at that point I didn't care.

If you know, then it's your choice for yourself. You're responsible for your actions, not someone else.

If you choose not to know, like you're careful never to ask and never to notice anything that points to them being in another relationship, then that's a choice too.

If they lied to you and you believed them, that's different.

Own what you do, especially if it hurts someone else.

 

[Sogo]

I am very glad you left the relationship. You deserve more and so does the woman he is married to/involved with. You don't deserve to be in a relationship that is never going to be healthy or complete and the effects on other innocent parties would be large too.

I have not but it seems it is pretty common. What has puzzled me is when friends of mine have had their marriages broken up as a result of the husbands affair and yet they then immediately go on to have an affair with someone that is married.

I think if you don't know then it is totally different. I also think it is fine if the man divorces his wife and one starts the relationship after that.

There will be someone else for you.

 

[Solon]

Also, isn't being the man (who is taken) isn't it his choice? Why does it make us, the 'other woman' bad? I didn't know at first, I found out later and at that point I didn't care. It was just nice to hang out with someone...

I have to say, I agreewith you