Women, Have You Ever Been With A Married/taken Man?

[Nagi]

But don't you feel bad about the other woman? The children? And do you really want to be with a man that behaves in this way?

 

[Solon]

If he didn't care about them, why would I? I'm not sure, if cheats on her, he will on anyone, I know, I'm not in that relatopnship wnyway=)

 

[Nazovo]

If you choose not to know, like you're careful never to ask and never to notice anything that points to them being in another relationship, then that's a choice too.

One relationship I was in was like this. I knew something....but still slept with him becasue I liked having someone to be with me.

If they lied to you and you believed them, that's different.

Another relationship was like this. I know now looking back, with a clear head, that he was also seeing someone else. And he was lying about many many other things. I have no idea why I just choose to ignore what was right in my face.

Yes, I probably hurt some people. But those men made there choice too. They drug me in knowing that they shouldn't.

I have moved on to a healthy relationship. And I know those men are whores and that they are going to cheat again. I feel there is little my remorse can do now. Maybe one day they will change...but there is a saying: Once a cheater, always a cheater. They will cheat again...

 

[Emiku]

If he didn't care about them, why would I?

What does his caring or not have to do with it? Don't you have your own conscience?

 

[Lunet]

I would never do it again...

*nazovo

 

[Solon]

What does his caring or not have to do with it? Don't you have your own conscience?

I'm sorry, no I did not care about his family.

 

[Ajek]

I was trying to get out of a very unhealthy situation, this man was a safe haven, he was or pretended to be everything I needed. He convinced me to leave my situation.
He was married with kids, but because of Hurricane Katrina his wife and kids were in another state. I felt a security with him that I was in desparate need of. I fell hard, but he became controlling and said it had to end because he could never leave his wife.
I ran into him a few years later and it was the same, he said everything I wanted to hear. ..I am a fool

 

[Solon]

I was trying to get out of a very unhealthy situation, this man was a safe haven, he was or pretended to be everything I needed. He convinced me to leave my situation.
He was married with kids, but because of Hurricane Katrina his wife and kids were in another state. I felt a security with him that I was in desparate need of. I fell hard, but he became controlling and said it had to end because he could never leave his wife.
I ran into him a few years later and it was the same, he said everything I wanted to hear. ..I am a fool

Are you still with him??

 

[Nagi]

I did not care about his family

This is what I have never understood about these situations. I don't understand not caring about what other women and children experience especially if I am partly responsible. I don't understand behaving in any situation in life in a way that does not consider others feelings or my possible effect on them.

 

[Jumap]

What I don't understand is the appeal of someone who would behave like that towards their own family. To be with someone you know is a liar and a cheat. How is that attractive?

 

[Nagi]

Agreed. That too.

 

[Fufu]

someone you know is a liar and a cheat. How is that attractive?

You do weird things when you are lonely.