Worried About My Grandfather

[Lady of Longbourn]

@gizmo Thank you for your support. It is very much appreciated.

 

[Lady of Longbourn]

Husband is starting to get annoyed with me, he thinks I am being over-emotional, over-thinking and over-reacting. He was really supportive but now I guess he thinks it's all over now and I guess...I just keep feeling grief. I was so scared and I thought I was going to lose my grandfather.

And then in just a few minutes I was told everything was okay. Suddenly there was no worries anymore. I felt like I was climbing up Everest and then told to turn around when I was almost at the summit.

Just shock with all my emotions and feelings. I was suddenly just supposed to let go of. Realizing I need to work through them. I think a lot of them are left over grief and emotions from past loses as well.

 

[Eleanor]

That's pretty much how it works for me. Build up build up...nothing. Old stuff.

So that makes you some kind of normal. :confused: Cold comfort I'm afraid.

 

[Joan]

On the one hand so glad to hear that it is nothing, but on the other also understand how all this has instilled that fear. Not like you can just turn it off. Can you allow yourself to feel it, but also think about what you want to do with it...like are there things you want to tell your grandfather? Make sure to be kind to yourself! Sorry that your husband is not more understanding.

 

[Britt.f7]

Sounds like something my dad would do, he's about the same age as your grandpa. Seriously, don't they know we worry? A head's up would be nice. I can just imagine all the emotions you are going through right now. I'm sorry for that. Deep breath.