Relationship Help, i have a dilemma

[LuckiLee]

So, my veteran has a pretty stressful job and he can hold it together all week. But alot of times on his day off I can see his stress bubbling to the surface so I try to give him his space. However it seems like he is just looking to get in an argument. Doesn't matter how I react or reply to him he just continues till we are both upset. I've tried everything that I can think of to to get through these times but nothing is working. And advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance!!

 

[Sweetpea76]

You get used to it eventually, which sounds horrible... but it's true. When you get used to it and can recognize it for a stress reaction, you don't let your emotions get the better of you. I can see that stress reaction bubbling up in my vet. It's always lashing out, criticism, and picking fights. He can't pick a fight if you don't react.

 

[LuckiLee]

You get used to it eventually, which sounds horrible... but it's true. When you get used to it and c...

I know. It's his issue to deal with. I may suggest he jog home from work once in awhile to blow off some steam. Think he'll go for it? Lol
Thanks for the reply!!