What Makes You Angry Today?

[Jimmy1]

What pissed me off today was getting another message with regards to the rough treatment of Jamz. And how my posse defended me even if I was wrong.

I thought we gave him a chance at the start. But he did not leave it alone. Am I right???

 

[nomedic1]

jimmy, you gave him every chance, he could of ignored posts but he started getting personal. I dont post much I read and learn from others I you have helped me in ways you couldnt believe and for that you have my eternal gratitude. Jamz was not willing to listen he just wanted to preach

 

[Wagon]

Somebody say posse? Hold on a minute while I fetch my MK24 Assault Spork.

It's generally the blood of the user......I can attest.

 

[JarHed]

I thought we gave him a chance at the start. But he did not leave it alone. Am I right???

Hey Jimmy

OK this is going to have to be a PC kind of answer. Only reason being that it can be percieved that as a 'member of your posse', I would always agree with and back you up. YIKES! Anyone who truly knows anything about me would know that that's not how I am or how I think or operate.

Life can be hard and PTSD makes it even harder than it has to be. You really don't know what's going to 'set somebody off'. It wouldn't be fair to talk or discuss a person that's no longer here. Everyone has the right to be able to defend themselves.

OK, now my opinions. This place is a fair, safe and good place for vets with PTSD. Everyone that comes here is immediately accepted into the fold. No questions asked; except a little bit about who they are. That's fair and It's not a rule or anything because we really don't have any. Except maybe the unwritten, common sense ones.

We're not always going to agree and we may even have at it at times. Geez, we're all broken in someway so that doesn't surprise me in the least. But that seems to be a very rare occurance.

The other thing is that people will always believe what they like and not the truth or the facts of the matter as it's presented. That's never going to change. So yes, in my opinion we give everyone a chance. Some that need guidance get that but it's always meant in a helpful way. Some get it and adjust and other don't. And so I'll get off of the soap box for now knowing that I can always come here a voice my opinion and so can everyone else, also. Believe it or not.

And to all Good Morning and hope ya'll have a great day

JarHed

 

[Bill Simmons]

What pissed me off today was getting another message with regards to the rough treatment of Jamz. And how my posse defended me even if I was wrong.

I thought we gave him a chance at the start. But he did not leave it alone. Am I right???

Take it easy Jimmy. Try not to get too stressed over this. Not everyone in the world is going to agree with you about anything no mater if you are right or wrong. This is normal stuff on the internet. Not the last time you will have to make a judgement call. I support you and think you do the right stuff 99% of the time.

Jimmy, this place is for your well being also. Don't get so raped up in this site that it f*cks with your head.

 

[Alex1991]

Austrain Death Machine

amazing band

got me mad in a good way

 

[Drizzt]

Well today was going alright. Tonight not so much. The wife wanted to go watch that stupid show Magic Mike with her sis. So she drove to the next town to pick her up and realized she was out of gas. She got gas but then the damn thing wouldn't start. So I tell her I can come pick her up and ask if she had waited a bit then try to start it again. She snaps says of course she did then decides to call the tow truck and hangs up. 5 minutes later she calls me back up and asks if I'll come pick her up. She's been wanting to separate yet still we live together and I love her so of course I willingly agreed even though she completely ignored my offer the first time. So I get there and she is nothing but ice towards me. Blames me for it running out of gas cause I took it this last weekend and left just under a 1/4 of a tank in it. It's Tuesday night. She's known it needed gas since then. My point is I really wanted to go to AA tonight and instead I had to go out of my way to help her out and she didn't even thank me but yelled at me instead. So now I really want a drink. Sorry bout the rant.

 

[Bill Simmons]

In the past when I had a lot of issues going on I really screwed things up for myself and others by trying to fix everything and everyone. At some point I had to just let go of a lot of the issues and work on getting my own head on straight. No matter how much I wanted my relationships with others to work out, nothing worked until I got myself a bit better under control. I had to prioritize what was really important. If I continue drinking and doing drugs I will die so dealing with that became number one. If I am dead I can not help my wife. I also discovered that number two was work and making money. Without work and therefore money I could not be of much use to my wife and family.

Drizzt...I am not smart enough to tell you what to do but I think you know where you should be and what you should be doing. If AA is important then go there. I can tell you for sure if you had dropped dead your wife would have found a way to deal with the gas and car issue.

If you don't like what you are getting then stop doing what you are doing.

PTSD, and drinking and drugs are big f*cking issues that can and will kill you. If you have PTSD, and have a problem with drinking and do not address those issue first I can just about assure you that there is little chance anything else will work out very well in your life. First things first man. Only you can make those determinations and don't let anything get in your way.

 

[Drizzt]

PTSD, and drinking and drugs are big f*cking issues that can and will kill you. If you have PTSD, and have a problem with drinking and do not address those issue first I can just about assure you that there is little chance anything else will work out very well in your life.

I've been sober now for 17 days. I actually like the AA meetings to vent. I really don't have a desire for alcohol. Now that I'm a little more sane I've actually become deathly afraid of alcohol. First of all it was destroying my kidney's and liver. True it suppressed my thoughts, but the catch was it made me someone I didn't like or even know. Seldom do I remember being that person most of the time the only way I know I was him was my wife told me or I'd call/text or email a friend and not remember it. Needless to say only one of my friends will still talk to me. Tomorrow night I go to the VA for the first time. The wife is driving me there probably just to make sure I go. I actually want to go though. So least that's good. Also today she apologized for how she treated me.

 

[JennyMac]

I've been sober now for 17 days. I actually like the AA meetings to vent. ....................... Tomorrow night I go to the VA for the first time......

You are on your way...it takes strength to do what you are doing, real strength. Good on ya, really...damn good job man.

 

[Wagon]

Sleeping only 3 hrs hours and waking up in an argument with the world. Same shit different day.

Nice job Dritzz.

Mentals for me today. Group Trauma Recovery. Hopefully not a kumbaya conference. (n)

 

[Bill Simmons]

Hey Wagon...I got these three Cuban chicks down here in Miami,...been driving me crazy...think I am gona send them to you for a while...you think you got trouble now!!!:ROFLMAO:

Hope you won the argument with the world.LOL