That is another misrepresentation about healing trauma and PTSD, in that you have to talk about your trauma. That is not factual at all. You will certainly want to talk about specific parts that bother you the most, however; your focus to heal isn't in the past, it is what you feel in the present. The past is purely the past... it contains things that are annoying your present. You can't change your past, you can only change your present and future, hence where you focus to heal PTSD. Present tense then writes a different past, which writes a better and better future as you go..
I know you're more educated in this field than I am and I certainly won't claim to speak for anyone else but myself. But, you seem to indicate that it's okay to talk about the past briefly during therapy and that it shouldn't play an integral part in the actual treatment and healing process. I, for one, feel that I have personal issues and reasons to disagree with you (at least in part.)
I've mentioned in at least one other post the propensity of us PTSDers to be cynical and distrustful. It goes with the territory. Due to my general lack of trust there are behaviors and things that I do in the present that take me a very long time to talk about, no matter who it is I might want to share them with. The method I use to build up enough trust and to be able to share such intimate details with someone is to talk - and talk - and talk with that person. How did he react to such and such an event? What were his thoughts on this or that detail of my life during my past and up to the present? As someone whose PTSD remained untreated for more than 35 years, I'm not very trusting at all and I have lots of things to talk about that have gotten me into my current state.
Another reason I think it's appropriate to talk at length about our past is that it is (or should be) extremely important for a therapist to know as much as possible in order to arrive at a complete diagnosis and then to begin treatment. For example, which disorders might be directly related to my PTSD and which may not be? If it turns out that I'm bi-polar, is it part of my PTSD? What affect might that have on my treatment? Was one of my disorders present before I was exposed to the traumatic event, or is it totally a consequence of it? It isn't like we as patients can waltz into a doctor's office with our own predefined list of conditions or disorders. It's up to the physician to diagnosis us completely, and for that I believe they need to know more than just what is happening with us in the present. I have a couple of friends and acquaintances who were misdiagnosed completely because they came to their own conclusions about what they were suffering from and reported it to their doctors or therapists - only to receive the wrong treatments, some having been given medications that they never should have taken.
I might contrast this with a patient going to the emergency room with a 6 inch cut on his arm. The medical staff might ask how the cut got there, but it really doesn't matter that much when it comes to dictating the kind of treatment he gets. The cut will be disinfected, stitched, and then bandaged, whether it was caused by a knife or a shard of glass or a razor blade. If, on the other hand, a patient suffering from PTSD is diagnosed with depression and anxiety, might his treatment be different if the depression and anxiety were caused 100% by the traumatic event versus being originally caused by some events earlier in his life? If the treatment involves just doping the patient up with medications then it may not make a difference what the cause was, but if the treatment involves intense therapy alone then I would think it could very well make a difference as to how the disorder originated.
Well, again I've written too long of a long post. I apologize for that and I welcome any enlightenment that comes my way.
Thanks for the opportunity to post!
VAR