Having si today

[Freida]

happy to help! :hug:

 

[Deanna]

A while ago, she sent me seven videos of cutting herself on her birthday and since she lives an hour away...

Well, that's when children are placed in social services and out of the parents home.. so she cut you off.

Listen, if it was my daughter... I would have done the same.

 

[gealach]

I hope you are able to get some rest tonight, and maybe a good cry too, and things will feel better tomorrow.

You are stronger and more important than you can know, and you have touched many lives. You've been a support for so many when they were in need, now we're all here for you.

Sending you lots of support, and hugs.

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[Deleted member 12723]

that's when children are placed in social services and out of the parents home.. so she cut you off

Thank you so much for seeing this! Now I get why she cut me off. Thank you so much for seeing what I have been unable to see. You have no idea how much this explains everything to me. Now I understand some of her anger towards me. It is fear based. She knows that I am not messing around anymore.:hug:

Sending you lots of support, and hugs.

I felt that, thank you from the bottom of my heart. That has so touched me and I so appreciate knowing you and so thankful that you are in my life. You are very dearly loved.:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

 

[Freemartin]

Sorry, I'm late to this thread, I just saw it.
Glad you're doing better now. You're absolutely loved, appreciated and needed here, as I'm sure you've already witnessed. :hug:
You've been so kind and supportive to me, as well as to so many others. So, in our point of view the question of why you should keep on keeping on is a no-brainer.

I am under the confusing waves of realizing that I am responsible in a way that I am not aware of.

This is just a shot in the dark, but I think this might have something to do with the fact that kids generally find it scary when their parents are struggling. It's absolutely no-one's fault, it's just one of life's many tragedies. I think your daughter may have some undealt-with pain from the times she was a kid and you all were having a hard time. That doesn't mean you did anything wrong or that you now should be blamed in any way. So, the question of whether you are responsible is debatable. But I think it's very wise and a sign of great responsibility that you are now facing these things.

I hope I didn't sound harsh or anything. Just wanted to give my two cents about the thing you were trying to figure out.

Take good care of yourself! I hope the stuff with the meds gets sorted out. Sounds like a real b*tch, the situation you're in!

:hug:

 

[Deleted member 12723]

question of why you should keep on keeping on is a no-brainer.

Thank you.:hug:

I think this might have something to do with the fact that kids generally find it scary when their parents are struggling. It's absolutely no-one's fault, it's just one of life's many tragedies. I think your daughter may have some undealt-with pain from the times she was a kid and you all were having a hard time.

thank you so much and you did not sound harsh at all. Thank you for shrinking this down to a more managable size for me to be able to deal with.

 

[freebird]

@Rain, you are such a dear friend! Thinking of you and hope your new meds help! Love!

:hug:

 

[Freemartin]

... And I'd like to add: it's so great that you're facing your pain and difficulties in therapy, and I'm sure it will also greatly benefit your daughter. She seems to be in a bad place currently and probably not able to benefit from you courageous work just now, but I'm sure she will later. It's really brave of you to look into these things. I'm sure nothing is lost forever.
:hug:

 

[Deleted member 12723]

you are such a dear friend! Thinking of you

Thank you so much freebird. Lots of love and hugs to you to, :hug::hug::hug:

I'm sure nothing is lost forever.

Thank you so very much. I realize the good that came out of this awful day is because of everyone here giving me new information that I had not considered before. My daughter is in a very bad place in her life and she had to cut me off because she is afraid that I am going to call the authorities on her to take her kids away. I understand why when I recently texted her that she pretended to be someone else. I could not understand why she lied to me about who she was. Yes she is very angry but at the same time, I realize that I am the easiest target for her anger. But she is afraid of me and sees me as the enemy that is a real threat to her and to her kids. You and everyone else helped me to put so many pieces together today and it really helped me to be able to face the facts and get some understanding.

thank you again:hug:

 

[Deleted member 541]

@Rain Just checking in to see how you’re doing today??? Feeling better???

 

[Deleted member 12723]

Just checking in to see how you’re doing today??

Thank you She Cat, I am feeling much better today than yesterday. Still a little tender but holding my own. :hug:

 

[LuckiLee]

I'm happy you're feeling better today! Keep sharing with us. We're here.