my brother acts this way towards women and their "weeknesses" and has his whole adult life and he is not a vet. he has never (to my knowledge) ever gotten treatment or help. his wife told me she is going to leave him after decades together since the kids are now grown and out of the house. there are some extremely painful stuff their family has been hit hard with and my brother told me he is pissed that she hasn't "sucked it up" and "just dealt with it" she is "so week" and he's sick of it. he told me he told her to go to a psychiatrist and get meds and deal with your ill brain. he meant this seriously, this was not sacrcasam but his belief.
he got this way from the conditioning he received from male culture that our culture puts on boys, and he got this from our upbringing. In our family there was only one person in our household who was allowed to have problems and we were forbidden to have any problems or we would have our lives threatened. This is not an exagerration. Homicidal rage was what we experienced if we just looked sad, forget having any anger. So we all learned to "SHUT" off all negative emotions, pretend painful things are nothing to pay attention to, put on a charismatic smile and greet the world everyday. It's really scary stuff because I think it's how psychopaths are made.
he got this way from the conditioning he received from male culture that our culture puts on boys, and he got this from our upbringing. In our family there was only one person in our household who was allowed to have problems and we were forbidden to have any problems or we would have our lives threatened. This is not an exagerration. Homicidal rage was what we experienced if we just looked sad, forget having any anger. So we all learned to "SHUT" off all negative emotions, pretend painful things are nothing to pay attention to, put on a charismatic smile and greet the world everyday. It's really scary stuff because I think it's how psychopaths are made.
