I have few questions and comments to poke in your adulthood parts.
What is the major function therapy is serving now? Some people may see support in abandment or validation or dealing with anger an outlet to take it out to learn etc.
Rupture in therapy at least in my experience, it is often mini misunderstanding as any relational situation, or a roadblock of empathy failure...there is a limit but most therapists are good recognizing this from the clients behavioror or topics brought to therapy and may rectify the rupture, or most I find when I am not ready to internalize the function they are serving (too far in unconscious or avoiding a decision that might become inevitable if we allow to take function back) and for this one unfortunately the therapist reached their limit of their therapeutic and it may be above their own growth...they become resistant....and the client was already resistant consciously or unconsciously....so very difficult situation. In this last case ideally both may learn a great deal...and even the therapist may grow from it! If they are good enough or termination becomes a fantasy for the clients.
To reset if I do not know the reasons for the mental anguish ...this what rupture feels to me...I usually say something to the affects of losing faith in the process...and go from there to process....to hopefully resolve.
You are in a pickle because you have clear ideas what you need so to me you are maybe afraid or not ready to utilize independent mind from her and she is ignoring this or unable to see it...limitations of her own background analysis. I am sorry you are alone trying to figure out.
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What is the major function therapy is serving now? Some people may see support in abandment or validation or dealing with anger an outlet to take it out to learn etc.
Rupture in therapy at least in my experience, it is often mini misunderstanding as any relational situation, or a roadblock of empathy failure...there is a limit but most therapists are good recognizing this from the clients behavioror or topics brought to therapy and may rectify the rupture, or most I find when I am not ready to internalize the function they are serving (too far in unconscious or avoiding a decision that might become inevitable if we allow to take function back) and for this one unfortunately the therapist reached their limit of their therapeutic and it may be above their own growth...they become resistant....and the client was already resistant consciously or unconsciously....so very difficult situation. In this last case ideally both may learn a great deal...and even the therapist may grow from it! If they are good enough or termination becomes a fantasy for the clients.
To reset if I do not know the reasons for the mental anguish ...this what rupture feels to me...I usually say something to the affects of losing faith in the process...and go from there to process....to hopefully resolve.
You are in a pickle because you have clear ideas what you need so to me you are maybe afraid or not ready to utilize independent mind from her and she is ignoring this or unable to see it...limitations of her own background analysis. I am sorry you are alone trying to figure out.
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