Confronting Abuser and Repercussion

[FreeSoul]

I have few elder siblings, and they all have kids. One of my elder brothers would abuse my another brother’s children almost everyday.
Surprisingly, their father never objected to the bullying.
I couldn’t stand these kids being bullied right in front of me.
I did some NLP exercises to build up some courage as I was not used to confront someone who bullied and abused people, including me.
I then told him not to abuse or bully those children and I also told him he used to bully and abuse me, back in my childhood.
That bast**d accused me of abusing his daughter.
This terrified me and I thought what if he frames me of raping or molesting his daughter.
I didn't even know what to do about it because he could easily brainwash his daughter and then frame me.
To this day, I feel anxious and worried in presence of children.
This crook is a smuggler, and I knew about his smuggling business, but I would mind my own business and avoid whatever he did.
Recently, I made an anonymous complaint about his smuggling business to authorities; but I continue to suffer from the blame and accusation he made towards me.

 

[MaplePancake]

That is scary. You are very brave to approach him. if anything happens with his false accusations my guess is that his reputation for being a bullying manipulative jerk also leads people to distrust what he says

 

[FreeSoul]

That is scary. You are very brave to approach him. if anything happens with his false accusations my guess is that his reputation for being a bullying manipulative jerk also leads people to distrust what he says

Your words were really encouraging and supportive in relieving my pain and suffering.
I thought couple of times of attempting something similar again so I could post another post here.
I had to stop myself from doing it.
Your post validated my pain and the threatening voice I had stuck in my mind.
Your post is an evidence that when I am validated and respected for what I do, I would do similar kind of things to get the same validation and support.

Hope you overcome all your difficulties; and you are better able to deal with them.