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Confronting Abuser and Repercussion

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I have few elder siblings, and they all have kids. One of my elder brothers would abuse my another brother’s children almost everyday.
Surprisingly, their father never objected to the bullying.
I couldn’t stand these kids being bullied right in front of me.
I did some NLP exercises to build up some courage as I was not used to confront someone who bullied and abused people, including me.
I then told him not to abuse or bully those children and I also told him he used to bully and abuse me, back in my childhood.
That bast**d accused me of abusing his daughter.
This terrified me and I thought what if he frames me of raping or molesting his daughter.
I didn't even know what to do about it because he could easily brainwash his daughter and then frame me.
To this day, I feel anxious and worried in presence of children.
This crook is a smuggler, and I knew about his smuggling business, but I would mind my own business and avoid whatever he did.
Recently, I made an anonymous complaint about his smuggling business to authorities; but I continue to suffer from the blame and accusation he made towards me.
 
That is scary. You are very brave to approach him. if anything happens with his false accusations my guess is that his reputation for being a bullying manipulative jerk also leads people to distrust what he says
 
That is scary. You are very brave to approach him. if anything happens with his false accusations my guess is that his reputation for being a bullying manipulative jerk also leads people to distrust what he says
Your words were really encouraging and supportive in relieving my pain and suffering.
I thought couple of times of attempting something similar again so I could post another post here.
I had to stop myself from doing it.
Your post validated my pain and the threatening voice I had stuck in my mind.
Your post is an evidence that when I am validated and respected for what I do, I would do similar kind of things to get the same validation and support.

Hope you overcome all your difficulties; and you are better able to deal with them.
 
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